I often hear ladies ask one another…. “Is he the one?” as in the right person? So i think that is where the problem begins. Who is the right person? tall, dark and handsome, the similitude of Prince charming in the Cinderella story? Someone who will make your heart beat faster? someone whose smile can take your breath away? I beg to differ, maybe because i have seen case of supposedly rite person+ rite person= bad marriage,terrible home while wrong person+wrong person= good home and healthy marriage. Could it be that the two “wrong people” showed the right actions towards each other and ended up with a happy home and the two right people thought it was okay to be right for each other and did not sow good actions to each other?
My conclusion, when it comes to relationships and marriages, i will suggest the ladies tone down on the”fantasy man” search and look to be found by the one who treats you right and shows you regard and is willing to be by you all the way, love is a choice not a feeling,so love him back and see where it takes you, same goes to the men who are looking for big boobs,J’Lo shaped, perfect IQ, good cook,take home to mama ladies…. You might want to tone that down a little.
In a nutshell, please be with someone for the right reasons and be sure to live life realistically not like its a movie or a dream. Ciao!
11TH JUNE 2010